Confident people project an effortless sense of self-assurance, and they tend to stand out in a crowd wherever they go.
What’s so different about them? Well, confident individuals think and feel differently. They also approach and solve challenges in different ways.
And, ultimately, these are the qualities that help shift the odds in their favor and set them up for success.
It’s worth noting that being confident is not the same as being arrogant or cocky.
Truly confident people are self-aware and work hard on themselves to gain that confidence.
So, then, what are the things confident people do differently that set them apart from everybody else? Let’s find out!
1. They Don’t Seek Attention
Nobody likes people who are desperate for attention.
I’m sure we can all agree on that. After all, being yourself is more effective than trying to prove you’re important. Right?
Besides, people are much more attracted to the right kind of attitude than what, who, or how many people you know, and truly confident individuals understand this. Because their self-worth comes from within, they don’t need praise or approval.
Whenever they do receive attention for their accomplishments, they instantly shift the focus to all the people who contributed to their success.
2. They Know How to Express Themselves
Confident people are able to express whatever’s on their minds.
This makes it easier for them to communicate effectively and share their thoughts and ideas with others.
Self assured individuals also respect the opinions of others, even if they disagree with them.
That’s not to say that they easily submit just because the other person is a superior or in a greater position of power.
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They stand up for themselves and their beliefs.
At the same time, they’re aware that they don’t know everything, and they’re willing to admit when they are wrong.
3. They Don’t Compare Themselves to Others
People who are confident recognize and value their own strengths and abilities.
They’re also aware of the fact that there are others who are more skilled or accomplished than they are.
That said, they don’t feel threatened or insecure by other people’s abilities and accomplishments.
Quite the opposite! They are more inclined to celebrate them.
In fact, other people’s successes inspire them to learn or do more!
4. They Show Sincere Interest in Other People
Confident people do not require external approval.
These folks don’t feel that they have to persuade anyone to believe that they’re intelligent, funny, or interesting.
They don’t need to be the focus of attention, either. Instead, confident people take an active interest in others and listen more than they speak.
They consider social engagement as an opportunity to learn from others and enjoy their company, not as a way to get validation from them.
5. They Stay Calm and Collected, No Matter What
Everyone has to deal with crisis and tough situations sometimes. And most people lose it when things don’t go according to plan.
People who are self-assured deal with challenges differently.
They maintain their composure, take control of the situation, and consider their options.
Instead of panicking, they attempt to defuse the situation by determining the most effective course of action.
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6. They Take Charge of Their Life
Confident people are clear about their goals and life purpose.
They are in charge of their lives because they have a clear vision of the bigger picture and know exactly where they want to go.
These individuals take responsibility for their actions, decisions, and choices.
They are also more likely to direct their attention toward problem-solving instead of blaming others.
As a result, they are better equipped to navigate their way around hurdles and difficulties.
7. They Motivate Themselves
When everything seems to go smoothly, it’s easy to stay motivated.
However, when things don’t work out as planned, less self-assured people find it difficult to motivate themselves.
Confident people, on the other hand, are intrinsically motivated, meaning, they keep themselves motivated even through the most challenging of times.
8. They Are Not Afraid to Take Risks
Most people are crippled by the fear of taking risks.
They are afraid of making a mistake and so, they usually choose the safe route whenever possible.
Confident people understand that in order to reach their goals and have extraordinary achievements, they must venture outside their comfort zone and take calculated risks.
They are not afraid to explore unfamiliar territory, and to seize possibilities that will help them flourish and progress to the next level of success.
9. They Are Comfortable Saying No
Those who are insecure have a harder time saying no than people who are confident.
They’re afraid that they’ll offend someone by saying no, causing that person to lose interest in them.
Always saying yes though, can lead people to stretch themselves too thin, resulting in high stress levels, and ultimately, burnout.
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Confident people are not afraid of saying no because they recognize their boundaries and know where their time is best spent.
They value their time and understand the importance of saying no.
10. They Generate Their Own Happiness
Confident people don’t rely on other people or external events to make them feel good about themselves; they’re able to generate happiness from within.
They recognize their worth and are content with who they are.
Simply put, confident people derive their feelings of joy and satisfaction from their own accomplishments, rather than from what others think of their achievements.
Next time you see someone who exudes confidence, keep an eye out for the things I just listed.
Perhaps you might want to start implementing some of these as well.
Over time, you’ll become just as confident as they are!
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