So many a time you can only second guess your partner. I mean, it’s hard to really tell if someone loves you for real.
They can say they love you but is it for real? Like are they actually telling the truth?
I’m going to be giving you seven things that women do when they genuinely love you, to enable you at least decipher between someone who’s just there for ulterior motives as opposed to someone who’s really there for the relationship and would like to see it grow.
So if you are interested in this article keep reading because I’ve got seven tips coming your way right now.
1. She Tries To Be Seen by Your Friends and Family
Now there’s nothing like dating a person who is always dodgy, will not want to come home to meet your friends, wants to keep the relationship a secret, that should be like the biggest red flag for you.
Now there have been times, there was one occasion where I felt quite disrespected when my ex girl asked us to keep our relationship ‘secret.’
I said to her that I’m nobody’s secret and if she couldn’t “display us” in public then there was nothing I wanted to do with her, and she took offense.
I later on found out that she has another guy and was just trying to keep me secret.
At that moment she definitely became the girl that I wasn’t going to be interested in being with in that kind of way.
And so I’m just saying that when someone genuinely loves you, they open up to you, they open up their circles to you, you get to meet their friends, their family and all the important people that matter in their life.
And so if you’re with someone who cannot do that I’m telling you it’s a red flag and you need to stay away from this person.
If a woman genuinely loves you, she lets you into her inner circle.
2. She’s Ready for Many Sacrifices to Ensure Your Happiness
Now love is all about compromise and so when you meet someone who’s not willing to play their part, bending over backwards when it comes to certain things, this person may not be as genuine as they want you to be.
They’re going to end up being someone who’s really difficult to be with, live with, because things are going to always have to go their way, and in this case, to keep the relationship going.
So if you meet someone who’s not willing to compromise, someone who’s not willing to bend over backwards, and accommodate you and do more to make and see you happy, then I’m sorry, but this lady may not be for you.
When a woman genuinely loves you, she’s ready to make many sacrifices for the relationship to work.
I mean of course, there are deal breakers for everybody; there are things that people would like to compromise on and yet there are many others that they wouldn’t. However, I’m not even talking about that.
I mean of course if, for instance, you’re into some kinky stuff that she does not enjoy, she has every right to tell you that she will not do it, she will never do it, and so you guys will have to come up with some kind of a compromise.
However, apart from those things that are really part of someone’s values that you may find a bit difficult to change, most things should be up for debate, up for conversation and you know both of you can agree on what you should and should not do where your relationship is concerned.
If she genuinely loves you, she will consciously make sacrifices for your happiness.
3. She Cares About Your Loved Ones
So it’s not the kind of person who would hear that your brother, your mother, your father, someone really close to you is ill and may not even be bothered about it at all.
Like does not care, will never ask you about it, even when you guys have conversations because she’s so disconnected and is in it for herself.
Now when a woman really loves you she actually puts in a lot of effort to make sure that your family and the things that bother you, become things that bother her.
And so if you have a woman who does not care, who doesn’t make your worries hers, who does not care about your loved ones, then you may not want to be settling with a woman like that.
And If you do, it’s always going to be just about her, and her immediate family and everybody else that matters to you will have to take the back burner.
I’m not saying that when you come together as a couple you need to mind everybody else’s business but your own.
I’m just saying that if a woman loves you, she really cares about the people in your extended family and how they make you feel or how their actions or inaction affect you and your relationship.
4. she Accepts The Rhythm of Your Life
So for example, all I’m trying to say is we all have like a little flow, you know.
There’s a flow to each of our lives, maybe you like to wake up at 6am and go to the gym before you go to work. Maybe she likes to sleep in a little bit.
I’m just saying that when you guys are together, when you begin to take this couple thing really seriously, you tend to begin to find a nice rhythm where you both can thrive.
So for instance, if you like to go to the gym before work she could say – Hey babe I will meet you up at gym and we can do this together before our day starts’
Or let’s say you live together. She likes to sleep a little later and you like to sleep a little earlier, she can say – okay, I will compromise. Instead of sleeping by 11pm, I will sleep by 9pm so we can get some time together before the day ends. You know what I mean.
5. She is Proud of Your Accomplishment
Now there are lots of people who couldn’t care less; maybe she met you when you were already a self-made man or maybe she met you when you’re at your lowest and she’s been with you as you started to progress through your career ladder.
No matter what stage she met you in, all I’m trying to say is, if a woman genuinely loves you she becomes your biggest fan, she becomes your biggest supporter, and indeed she will fight and argue with anybody else who tries to bring you down.
She is proud of your accomplishments, she encourages you to be better, she makes you realize that she will always be there for you.
And there is nothing like having a supportive partner who actually cherishes your accomplishments.
She makes your feel like you are the best thing that ever happened to her and that is the kind of partner your should really be looking out for because women like that a genuinely
6. She Fights For You as a Couple
If a woman genuinely loves you, she fight for you as a couple, and this shines through everything she does.
She tries to find a nice balance where both your needs and hers will be met.
And it even goes beyond that to the point where she begins to seek out activities, events, occasions, extracurricular activities that involve couples as opposed to something that she could do on her own, and as a man you also begin to do the same.
In that way you can grow together as a couple and your relationship flourishes a whole lot more.
This does not mean that she short her need and desire, it simple mean that she twist them a little bit so that it something that can suit both of you as couple
7. She Listens to You With Attention
You know she actually really pays attention.
Now a lot of women are guilty of this, where they like to talk a whole lot more than they listen, but if a woman genuinely loves you, she does pay attention to everything you say.
Either to make a mental note and try to be better improve on the relationship or merely just to be able to let you feel and know that she genuinely cares about what keeps you up at night; what you’re concerned about, and that kind of thing.
So if you find a woman who’s attentive to your needs, you just may have found a keeper.
Conclusion
Now if your woman does these seven things, then she genuinely loves you and she’s a keeper. So go ahead and take this relationship to the next level.
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