People in long term relationships will someday get to the point where they need to ask themselves: Is this really the person I want to spend the rest of my life with? Is she really THE ONE?
Scientists all over the world are researching the extremely complicated issues surrounding love and relationships.
They have spent countless hours trying to figure out how people fit together, and what qualities they need to bring into a relationship to make it a happy and lasting one.
In this blog post, I have compiled the most important and interesting results of these studies.
If the woman by your side has the following qualities, never let her go!
1. She Is Intellectually Challenging
There is no denying that someone’s looks are what initially draws us to them. It’s difficult to spot a great personality from across the room.
Many flings are built on physical attraction alone, but how long can that last?
When conversations lack depth or intrigue, we often fill our time with physical activity together, but it is impossible to build a real connection or lasting relationship with someone on that alone.
Being intellectually challenging and having the ability to hold real discussions about meaningful topics, will always beat shallow beauty in the long run.
Take for example, you tell your woman about a book you read, and instead of her just nodding after your summaries, she said, really? Don’t you think that author is biased?
From there a conversation comes up and you too are now in a real discussions
That is a great sign of Intellectually Challenging woman, this is the type of woman you should never Let Her Go
Looks might catch your attention, but if she keeps your mind engaged, that’s what will keep the relationship strong.
2. She Carries Herself With Class
Class has nothing to do with the price tag on your outfit.
Class is about the dignity you carry yourself with, and the level of respect you show to those around you.
Just so you know, A true class and elegance always shows.
It is hard to miss a lady who is poised and polite to everyone. A lady who is polite will always outshines the woman who’s all decked out, but can’t treat others with respect.
Now imagine, you went out on a date with your woman. Let say restaurant, your woman is well dressed and looking stunning.
But on getting to the venue, she snaps at the waiter, rolls her eyes when things take too long, or acts entitled.
With that bit of attitude, no matter how expensive her dress is makes her unattractive.
3. She Is Honest And Genuine
How long will you stay in a committed relationship with a beautiful liar?
If you cannot trust your partner or believe what she says, how can you construct a solid, lasting foundation with her?
Studies show that when men look for a long term committed relationship, they want to have an honest partner by their side.
Everyone makes mistakes and bad decisions sometimes.
This makes it even more important to have someone who can tell you when you’re wrong and help you get back on track.
Now imagine, you asking your about her opinion on something important, and instead of saying what you want to hear, she comes out straight and tell you the truth — even she knows you will be very uncomfortable.
Yes, that is the kind of woman I am talking about, this is the type of woman you can trust. Never Let Her Go
4. She Compromises
It’s easy to be committed in a relationship when it’s going well.
But, life can’t always be a bed of roses and at some point in your relationship, you and your partner will disagree about something.
It’s completely normal and inevitable. But the relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise.
Scientists already let use understand that those willing to take the steps and make the sacrifices, will have a long and happy relationship.
Take my woman for example, she knows that I love watching sports on weekends, but for her, she loves to watch a TV show.
So instead of arguing with me, she will say, “just enjoy your football match today, and tomorrow we’ll watch my show” She doesn’t create a battle over nothing—she finds a way for both of us to be happy.
Remember, a woman who knows how to compromise isn’t just thinking about herself—she’s thinking about theboth of you, and that’s what makes a relationship last.
5. She Is Kind And Empathetic
Science says that the keys to a long and happy relationship are kindness, generosity and understanding.
In life, we need a person who will believe in us, even when we don’t believe in ourselves. And someone who can understand when we’re facing tough times.
Being compassionate, supportive, and encouraging towards your partner is a huge part of building a successful relationship.
Take for instance, You are struggling, doubting yourself and feeling stuck. Instead of your woman brushing it off, she sat you down, listened to you, and said, “I know this is hard, but I believe in you.”
I understand that she haven’t fix anything; but trust me, that little act of kindness has shown that you are not alone, you have someone who loves and care about you beside you.
A woman like that makes life easier, even when things get tough.
6. She Is Consistent
Being consistent means that her personality has not changed from what it was when you first met.
To clarify the point, think of consistency as the opposite of volatility.
If someone is unpredictable and volatile, it’s difficult to know how they will be acting towards you on a certain day.
And that gets ood, no matter how aesthetically pleasing she is.
Imagine being in a relationship with someone whose mood changed constantly. Today day, she is affectionate, but tomorrow, she will barely spoke to you. This can actually be frustrating and exhausting.
You deserve to be with some you feel safe with.
You should be rest assured that no matter what happens, she’ll treat you with the same love and respect every single day. And that kind of stability is priceless.
7. She Accepts Your Flaws
Too many relationships only seem to consist of one partner criticizing the other.
Their ugly pants, their bad jokes, and their annoying habit of chewing too loudly… you get the picture.
Your partner should never make you feel inferior, unaccepted, or not “good enough.”
Yes, she should encourage you to improve yourself, but she should do that by building you up (not tearing you down).
Imagine you being with someone who understood that you have your flaws, you forget things easily, and sometimes you talk too loud.
But instead of makes you feel embarrassed about it. She will just roll her eyes or making you feel small, or laughs and say something like, “That’s just you, I understand”
That kind of acceptance? You don’t let that go.
8. She Has A Good Relationship With Her Parents
If you want to know what your partner will be like in 30 years, look at their parents.
If you want to know how they will treat you in 30 years, look at how they treat their parents now.
Don’t get it wrong here, I am not actually saying that her relationship with her parents always needs to be perfect.
All I’m saying is that, understanding her contribution to the relationship with her parents would be important to recognizing any tendency to replicate behavior – positive or negative – in an intimate relationship.
The only way to know if she will do better in other relationships is to be aware of those behaviors.
9. She Holds Similar Values As You
Many times our value system comes from our upbringing.
The things we find important, the things we believe in strongly, the way we treat others, and the way we treat ourselves.
The importance of this point cannot be stressed enough.
When you set out to make a life with someone, it is important that the two of you agree on some of the non-negotiable values each of you hold.
It doesn’t matter how attracted you are to someone or even how well you get along, if your values don’t align, you will always be clashing in the long run.
10. She Can Move Past Jealousy
While some jealousy is natural in a relationship, it’s important that both partners are secure enough in themselves and each other to know where to focus their energy.
But being sensible and trusting each other is important if you want a happy life.
Personal space is important for growth, and it is up to both partners whether they have enough trust in each other to allow for that.
A mature, quality woman will allow you to have your freedom, providing you don’t betray her trust.
11. She Supports Your Goals And Pursues Her Own
You need a healthy combination of personal goals, and goals you pursue together.
A strong woman by your side will motivate you and won’t be dependent on you.
You don’t need to worry about her, and she won’t need your constant validation.
She inspires you to be the best version of yourself, without changing who you are.
12. She Laughs At Your Jokes
Of course, we all want someone by our side who actually laughs at our jokes.
According to studies, having a partner who thinks you are funny is more important for men, than it is for women!
If you have already found a woman you can laugh with, make sure to take good care of her.
13. She Remains Calm In Fights And Calms You Down Too
Fights are inevitable in all relationships. Never disagreeing is not a sign of a stable relationship!
But the important thing is how you deal with disagreements and how you make up again after.
Researchers have found that a relationship will last the longest if the woman can calm herself during a fight and transfer those emotions to the man.
Interestingly, the effect is not the same if the man is the one to calm down first.
14. She Does Not Hold Grudges
If you found a woman who can forgive others, you will have her by your side for a long time.
According to studies, people who can unconditionally forgive others live longer lives.
But perhaps more importantly, forgiveness is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
People are not perfect and neither are you. There will be times when you inadvertently do something that hurts your partner, and you will need her to be able to forgive you.
15. She Puts Effort Into The Relationship
It’s no secret that sometimes the romance wears off in long term relationships, but you shouldn’t let it – and neither should she!
When she puts in effort for you and for the relationship, you know that she is invested. It doesn’t even have to be grand gestures.
Little things are enough to show you that she cares and is willing to go the extra mile for the happiness of the two of you.
Conclusion
If a woman continues to do what she knows attracted you in the first place, it shows that she cares about keeping you around.
Yes, I will be the first one to say it – women like this are hard to find.
But, if you are fortunate enough to have found one, make sure you do whatever it takes to make her feel special, every day.
Having said that, every man likely has a different ‘checklist’ for what he is looking for in a quality woman, but one would be hard-pressed to find a guy who didn’t agree with the points listed here.
What do you think? Is there anything that we missed? Let me know in the comments below!
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