Navigating relationships is a dance of balance and boundaries, especially for strong women.
Let me tell you, as a relationship expert and founder of the Love Connection blog, I’ve seen it all. And strong women? We don’t put up with nonsense, not in our relationships.
Strong women know their worth and are not afraid to demand respect, honesty, and equality from their partners. There are certain things we just won’t tolerate.
In this piece, I’ll be breaking down the 8 things that strong women like us never tolerate in relationships.
Let’s dive in and explore these non-negotiables together.
1) Disrespect
Now, let’s start with the baseline of any relationship: respect.
Strong women, we inherently understand our value. We don’t just deserve respect, we demand it. And we should, shouldn’t we?
A relationship without respect is like a car without gas. It just won’t go anywhere. Disrespect can take many forms, from dismissive comments to outright rudeness, and let me tell you, we don’t stand for any of it.
Strong women know that a partner who disrespects them doesn’t value them, and honestly, who has time for that?
We deserve a partner who respects us for our strengths, our flaws, our successes, and our failures. Anything less is simply unacceptable.
2) Inequality
Strong women, we’re not just looking for a partner, we’re looking for an equal. A relationship where one partner holds all the power? That’s a hard pass for us.
In my years of working with relationships, I’ve seen time and again that the best partnerships are those where both parties are on an equal footing. It’s about sharing decisions, sharing responsibilities, and most importantly, sharing respect.
As the incredible Ruth Bader Ginsburg once said, “Women belong in all places where decisions are being made.” And that absolutely includes our relationships.
Inequality in a relationship? No thank you! We strong women prefer an equal slice of the pie.
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3) Codependency
Speaking of equality, let’s talk about codependency.
Trust me when I say, strong women, we don’t need someone to complete us. We’re already complete on our own. Codependency creates an unhealthy power dynamic where one partner relies too heavily on the other for their self-worth and emotional needs.
A strong woman knows her worth isn’t tied to anyone else. It’s rooted within her. She understands that a relationship should enhance her life, not define it.
Codependency? Not on our watch! We’re all about interdependence – that beautiful space where two whole individuals come together to form a partnership, without losing their individuality. Explore more about this in my book, and let’s break the chains of codependency together.
4) Over-romanticizing
This one might surprise you, but hear me out. Strong women, we don’t tolerate over-romanticizing in our relationships.
Yes, romance is important. But let’s not forget, real relationships aren’t like the movies. They’re not about grand gestures and fairy-tale endings.
They’re about shared chores, comfort in silence, supporting each other during the hard times, and laughing about the silly things. They’re about commitment, compromise, and communication.
Over-romanticizing can lead to unrealistic expectations and eventual disappointment. Strong women know that a solid relationship is built on a lot more than just candlelit dinners and roses.
We appreciate the small acts of love – a warm cup of coffee made just the way we like it, a supportive hug after a long day or even a shared inside joke. Because at the end of the day, it’s those little things that truly matter.
Surprised? That’s okay. Being strong means embracing the unexpected and finding value in the real and everyday aspects of love.
5) Emotional unavailability
Let’s get personal for a moment. As a relationship expert and a woman, I’ve seen firsthand how damaging emotional unavailability can be in a relationship.
Strong women, we’re emotionally intelligent. We’re in tune with our feelings and we’re not afraid to express them. So when we encounter someone who’s emotionally unavailable, it just doesn’t sit right with us.
Emotional unavailability can be frustrating and hurtful. It can feel like we’re trying to connect with someone who’s hidden behind a wall. And that’s no foundation for a healthy relationship.
We value open communication and emotional connection. We need a partner who’s willing to share their emotions, their fears, their dreams, and their vulnerabilities.
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A strong woman knows she deserves emotional reciprocation. Emotional unavailability? That’s not on our list of must-haves in a relationship.
6) Abuse of any kind
Now, this one is non-negotiable. It’s raw, it’s real, and it needs to be said: strong women will never tolerate abuse, in any form.
Abuse is not just physical. It can be emotional, verbal, or psychological. It’s about power and control, and it’s absolutely toxic.
Strong women, we know our worth. We’re not afraid to stand up for ourselves. We refuse to be belittled, controlled, or hurt by our partners.
We deserve respect, kindness, and love. Abuse is a direct violation of these rights.
If you’re experiencing abuse, please seek help. Reach out to your local support services or confide in someone you trust. You don’t have to fight this battle alone.
Abuse? That’s a definite hard NO for us strong women. We’re not just survivors, we’re warriors. And warriors don’t tolerate abuse.
7) Dishonesty
We’re nearing the end of our list, and it’s time to talk about honesty.
In my own journey and through the countless stories I’ve heard as a relationship expert, I’ve learned that honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship. Without it, trust crumbles.
As Mark Twain wisely said, “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.” Dishonesty creates a web of lies that becomes too complicated to maintain.
Strong women, we value transparency and sincerity. We crave truth, even when it’s hard to hear.
Dishonesty? That’s a deal-breaker for us. We’d rather face an ugly truth than a beautiful lie any day.
8) Neglect
The final point on our list is neglect.
Neglect is often subtle, creeping into a relationship unnoticed until it’s too late. It’s the forgotten anniversary, the unreturned call, the dismissive attitude.
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Strong women, we’re aware of our needs and we’re not afraid to communicate them. A partner who neglects us or our relationship is not worth our time.
We deserve someone who values us, who prioritizes us, who shows up for us. We need a partner who invests in the relationship as much as we do.
Neglect? That’s another hard NO for us. We understand the importance of nurturing a relationship and expect our partners to do the same.
Strong women know their worth and refuse to settle for anything less. It’s all about respect, equality, honesty, and love.
Conclusion
And there you have it, ladies. The 8 things strong women, like us, never tolerate in relationships.
Navigating relationships can be tricky, but remember, we’re strong women. We know our worth and we don’t settle for anything less.
If you’re dealing with any of these issues in your relationship, remember, it’s okay to stand up for yourself. It’s okay to demand better.
Stay strong, stay courageous, and above all else, stay true to yourself. You’ve got this!
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