Ask a hundred people what they’re insecure about, and you’ll likely receive a hundred different answers.
The unfortunate truth is that everyone has insecurities.
These insecurities can often interfere with the healthy aspects of our lives, making it challenging to set them aside and fully embrace the present moment.
Here are five habits that, according to psychology, indicate a lack of security in a relationship
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1. Struggling to Be Happy for Your Partner
When your partner achieves something, whether big or small, it’s natural to feel happy for them. After all, their successes should feel like your own, right?
But if you’re feeling insecure, this may not be the case. Instead, you might find yourself too preoccupied with feelings of inadequacy, constantly comparing your life to theirs.
If you can’t share in your partner’s joy, it’s a sign that you lack self-confidence and fear that their success will overshadow you. This mindset can weaken your relationship.
2. Jealousy When They Spend Time with Others
Allowing your partner to maintain relationships outside of your own requires a certain level of trust and confidence.
If you’re insecure, you might constantly worry that if you’re not the center of attention, your partner will lose interest in you.
This often stems from self-doubt. Are you afraid you’re not worthy of love? Do you frequently question whether your partner genuinely likes you?
If so, your insecurities may be fueling jealousy whenever your partner spends time with friends and family.
3. Feeling Like Their Love Isn’t Enough
Even if your partner is loving and affectionate, you might find yourself doubting their words and actions.
If you respond to “I love you” with “Do you really?” it could be a sign of deeper insecurity.
Sometimes, the expectations we place on our partners are unrealistic. At some point, the love they offer must be enough to reassure you.
Otherwise, your constant need for validation may overwhelm your partner. It’s crucial to trust that their actions and words are genuine.
Learn to accept gestures like a surprise date as expressions of their love—what more do you need?
Research from the Institute for Family Studies has shown that couples who go on regular date nights are happier and more likely to stay together.
4. Fear of Being Without Them
If the thought of being apart from your partner fills you with anxiety, it may be a sign that you’re insecure in yourself. Do you doubt your ability to stand on your own for a while?
Long-distance relationships are tough for anyone, but it’s important to know that you would survive if you had to.
In a study of 1,000 Americans who had been in long-distance relationships, 58% reported having successful relationships.
Remember, just because you’re not physically with your partner doesn’t mean the world stops turning.
It’s essential to be confident in yourself and not overly dependent on your partner. If they’re ever not in your life, you still have you—and that’s pretty great.
5. Considering Ending Things Even When You’re Happy
Overthinking can wreak havoc on your relationship, especially if you’re insecure.
Even if you’re happy with your partner, it’s easy to convince yourself that you can’t handle the challenges of a relationship.
This shows that you’re letting self-doubt and fear take control. When you’re insecure, you might think it’s easier to break up with your partner rather than face the difficulties.
However, you shouldn’t take the easy way out because you are strong enough to overcome the challenges.
Conclusion
Overcoming insecurities in a relationship is possible. With time and effort, you can build the confidence needed to feel secure in yourself.
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